Ever wonder how the term Peeping Tom was made? It was said that when Lady Godiva rode naked on horseback as a sign of protest for the high taxes given to people and the people stayed inside their houses in respect for her, there was one man who couldn’t suppress the urge to peek and did so. This man’s name was Tom. So there you have it. The legend could be true or not, but there originated the pleasure of watching something sexy.
This may be the origin of voyeurism, in which one enjoys watching or enjoys being watched. This is something that you can do to give more spice to your sex life. You and your partner can take turns being the watcher and the watchee. The fun comes not only from the sheer pleasure of watching but also the attempt to control oneself from joining in on the fun or engage in a sexual act of his own.
If you want to incorporate a sense of voyeurism into your bedroom games, here are some suggestions:
This is one of the easiest to do when it comes to voyeur games. Never underestimate the power of the blindfold. It heightens one’s sense of touch and makes a person get rid of inhibitions because he or she cannot see the reactions of her partner or everyone else around her. Put your partner in blindfold and touch her sensually for long time. Do nothing else but touch her for maximum teasing. After using your hands, use your tongue to do the teasing. You can feel your partner’s tension rise as she tries to anticipate what you are going to do next.
Hide and watch
This involves sensually undressing oneself while the partner is hiding and watching. The trick here is to pretend effectively that you don’t know you are being watched. Let your partner hide somewhere and use all your erotic moves while you undress yourself. Do this slowly and take your time with each piece of clothing that you remove. Another take of this play is to let your partner watch while you are taking a shower. You can leave the bathroom door open and let your partner position herself in full view of your naked, wet body. Stroke and caress your body while your partner is watching. Make sure to put on a real show; slowly undulate in shower while your partner watches hungrily.
This means that the typical woman will have a shared experience of taking off her clothes for the first time in front of her lover. This will almost always occur the first time they have sex.
A lot of women have some insecurity about their bodies. It can be a totally insignificant thing. They think their complexion is not smooth enough, or their legs are too short, or their boobs too small.
These insecurities could conceivably lessen the pleasure of first time sex with a new partner.
If you have ever felt this way, consider this: that man has been dying to see you naked, to hold you, to make love to you. In his eyes, you are the sexiest creature on the planet. He would not exchange you for an Angeline Jolie or a Scarlett Johansson. In fact, he may also have the same insecurities. He knows he’s no Brad Pitt either.
Take it from us. An aroused man will see what he wants to see – a sex goddess naked in front of him. The fact that he has an erection as stiff as any of your dildos or vibrators tells you that he is hot for you. Enjoy your first fuck with your new partner. It can be the first of countless fabulous fucks to come.
An average man who reads this title may find it totally without sense. After all, men are conditioned with the thinking that bigger is always better, especially when it comes to penis size. Men with smaller dicks do everything they can to make their dicks longer and thicker for the sake of their machismo and sex life. But men who are gifted with bigger appendages do experience downsides because of their size. You don’t believe me? Read on and see for yourself.
It can hurt the partners
While it is true that lots of women and gay men prefer big cocks on partners, there is such as thing as too big for them. This is true especially for women who have normal-sized vaginas. Penises that are seven to nine inches will feel awesome inside the vagina, but it’s another story when it comes to dicks ten inches and above. A woman may feel super stretched out, making intercourse harder and painful. When sex becomes painful, it ceases to be pleasurable. In this case, a super big penis becomes a curse rather than a blessing.
So imagine if you apply this to gay men. Since the anus is way tighter than the vagina, you can only imagine how painful it must be for a gay man to be penetrated in the ass by a jumbo dick. It can lead not only to pain but wounds as well.
It can get very embarrassing clothing-wise
No matter how hard you try, it is hard concealing a nine-inch penis underneath layers of clothing. Wearing briefs may help; forget about donning boxers in which your soldier can hang free. If you happen to be outside and get an erection all of a sudden, it can get very embarrassing for you when people are looking at your crotch as if you are a sick pervert.
It can limit sex positions
This has something to do with the pain factor for the partners. In order to make sex more comfortable, you must stick to positions that do not allow maximum entry into the vagina. Forget about doing furious doggy style with your partner, because this is the best position for deep thrusting.
You can work your way around these hassles by reaching a compromise with your partner regarding the sex positions, in which both of you will enjoy it.