The Joys of Being a Voyeur

Ever wonder how the term Peeping Tom was made? It was said that when Lady Godiva rode naked on horseback as a sign of protest for the high taxes given to people and the people stayed inside their houses in respect for her, there was one man who couldn’t suppress the urge to peek and did so. This man’s name was Tom. So there you have it. The legend could be true or not, but there originated the pleasure of watching something sexy.

This may be the origin of voyeurism, in which one enjoys watching or enjoys being watched. This is something that you can do to give more spice to your sex life. You and your partner can take turns being the watcher and the watchee. The fun comes not only from the sheer pleasure of watching but also the attempt to control oneself from joining in on the fun or engage in a sexual act of his own.

If you want to incorporate a sense of voyeurism into your bedroom games, here are some suggestions:

Blindfold

This is one of the easiest to do when it comes to voyeur games. Never underestimate the power of the blindfold. It heightens one’s sense of touch and makes a person get rid of inhibitions because he or she cannot see the reactions of her partner or everyone else around her. Put your partner in blindfold and touch her sensually for long time. Do nothing else but touch her for maximum teasing. After using your hands, use your tongue to do the teasing. You can feel your partner’s tension rise as she tries to anticipate what you are going to do next.

Hide and watch

This involves sensually undressing oneself while the partner is hiding and watching. The trick here is to pretend effectively that you don’t know you are being watched. Let your partner hide somewhere and use all your erotic moves while you undress yourself. Do this slowly and take your time with each piece of clothing that you remove. Another take of this play is to let your partner watch while you are taking a shower. You can leave the bathroom door open and let your partner position herself in full view of your naked, wet body. Stroke and caress your body while your partner is watching. Make sure to put on a real show; slowly undulate in shower while your partner watches hungrily.

It’s all good fun.  The other thing you can do to spice up your love life is to use sex toys.  They can be purchased from pleasuretease.com. Make sure you use an Pleasure Tease coupon codelink here.